Yes, you read that right. On International Women’s Day, AFP asked, “Why are there so few male fundraisers?”
Wednesday March 8 was International Women’s Day. The world-wide day recognizing the social, economic, cultural and political achievements of women and calling for acceleration of gender parity. Held every March 8, it’s been celebrated since about 1908.
So, it was with consternation that members of the Association of Fundraising Professionals, especially women, received the monthly AFP eWire with the article, “Why are There so Few Male Fundraisers?” (Hat-tip to Vanessa Chase.)
For me there are 3 glaring issues:
First issue: this eWire didn’t have to go out on International Women’s Day and talk about men OR AFP could have chosen to send an eWire celebrating women on IWD.
Most of my career as a fundraiser – one who came up through annual giving and events – I’ve needed to be aware of significant days and holidays, and not just the ones I was raised on. Rather, the significant national, religious and special days which are important to all members of a community.
Pro-tip: Check calendars, raise awareness.
It was only a few weeks ago that women – and many others – attended the Women’s March on Washington. (And many of us participated in towns and cities around the world.) AFP International Headquarters are right there in Virginia, so the issues of women and the fight for fairness should be top of mind.
Second issue: the AFP eWire segmentation was a disservice to all.
When this went down on March 8, I was scrambling to get everything done on my last workday before a long-awaited vacation (I’m flying to see my daughter now). When I saw the eWire email, the article “Why are there so few male fundraisers” was at the VERY bottom. Or at least the one I received.
Some colleagues received the AFP eWireYP, which is segmented for Young Professionals. And on the very day when the whole world was celebrating the contributions of women, these members saw that the first article at the top of the email was Young Professional Spotlight: Thaddeus Teo.
A fine young fundraiser, working at a fantastic nonprofit: United Way of King County (where I worked for a few years). But… you’d think there might be some sensitivity around highlighting a gent on IWD.
Next article was “Why are there so few male fundraisers“.
To recap the differences in segmentations:
Our newsletter (Old Professionals?) is topped with articles like:
- Understanding Data and Improving Donor Retention
- Fundraising Revenues down for P2P Campaigns, A New Survey Finds
- Lawsuit Alleges that PayPal Diverted Donations to Different Charities
- Action University Summary: The Progress Principle: Using Small Wins to Ignite Joy, Engagement, and Creativity at Work
Our newsletter had the article “Why are there so few male fundraisers” at the very bottom of the page.
Their newsletter (Young Professionals) had the article about Thaddeus and below that “Why are There so Few Male Fundraisers?”
And our top four articles? One was in the YP eWire, with a different title (Class Action Suit Filed Against PayPal’s Giving Platform) but none of the other articles. (My SFU colleague Rory Green alerted me and then forwarded her eWire.)
Hey, I like segmentation – where it works. But some of these differences are about age and some are related to experience. You can have a new fundraiser who is 45 years old. And you can have a person under 30 who actually has a breadth of experience. Rory and Vanessa are just two experienced fundraisers I know who live in Vancouver who are under 30.
Third issue: That article, though…
This article, which either has no authorship claims or was written by a collective within AFP’s public affairs office, could have been based on research rather than a survey, opinions and musings. Ostensibly, the article sets about to answer these questions:
- Why are there so many more women in the profession?
- Should we be worried there aren’t more men? and
- Is there anything the profession can do to change that ratio?
Do we need more men? I don’t know – and this article makes no attempt to answer that. You can easily find articles such as: Lack of Women in Top Roles Hinders Nonprofits or Women in Power – or Not So Much: Gender in the Nonprofit Sector.
In addition, the way this article is written feeds into some issues of power and privilege without addressing them – the same issues that some that our nonprofits are fighting against!
The article also approaches gender as binary – and let’s all get woke it just ain’t so any more, no matter your personal views.If you are a fundraiser, I believe you had better be approaching your work and life with an open mind and non-judgmental heart.
It doesn’t address the issue of feminization of the nonprofit workforce – that is that by having more women in the sector, earning power has been suppressed.
And worst of all, for me, is that the article does not discuss the skills, talents and passion needed for this career. These are what we should be considering in regards to hires, not gender.
This article could have been much stronger. I was sad to see it settled on trite reasoning such as:
- “[Women managers] may lean towards women because they—rightly or wrongly—attribute stronger relationship building skills to women. If they already have six women on their team, they may lean towards the female candidate because she will fit more easily.”
- “…women tend to approach conversations more in terms of emotions and feelings, while men talk more about concrete factual things, like their plans for the day, or sports and politics.”
- “Many men still see themselves as breadwinners, and it’s hard to make them see how that sacrifice and work pays off in the charitable sector.”
Pro-tip: Times, they are a-changing. Certainly, there are many households where one person who stays home and one person who goes out to work, but in places like Vancouver or Seattle where the average mortgage payment is CA $3,570 and US $2,965 respectively, both members in a couple need to work at well-paying jobs. Heaven help a single person working in the nonprofit space wishing to buy a home.
- “Men have told me they feel very alone, and that it’s hard sometimes to just go out for a beer after work.”
Pro-tip: Diversity is good for business, so managers should help build better team dynamics.
- “…talented men who came into the profession later in their careers after they had done other things and made money.”
Pro-tip: Let’s not value people more than others because they have made a lot of money.
I would like to offer an alternative view on this issue.
We don’t need more men. AND we don’t need more women. We need more deeply committed fundraisers who are fired up and ready to challenge the status quo in support of their nonprofit missions.
Many of us work in areas of justice, dignity and diversity; fairness, equity and equality; and to break down archaic and moribund systems and bureaucracy, to name a few of the hills we battle on. So why did this article, and the thinking behind it, keep us stuck there?
No more fundraisers biding their time until retirement, No more new-to-the-workforce adults becoming fundraisers because it is an easy first job – but they don’t really care and will leave at the first sign of more money. No more unmotivated individuals taking up the positions of others who could and would contribute so much more.
Fundraisers should be dedicated to the mission of the nonprofit where they work. We should be fundraisers with the zeal of disrupters – people who want to challenge the status quo to make what we do in the nonprofit space better.
THIS should be the call of AFP.
To stand for something beyond male/female, beyond old (or experienced)/ young (inexperienced), beyond racial diversity to embracing a spectrum of diversity in our workplaces, boards and donors.
But certainly, on International Women’s Day, AFP should have been celebrating those who make up about 75% of our workforce.
Full disclosure: I am a member of the AFP Canada Foundation for Philanthropy Board – and I’m going to suggest that AFP International Headquarters make a note of this celebratory day holiday every year!
UPDATE: You should also read the statement from AFP.
Other voices: My colleague Vanessa Chase Lockshin also shared her thoughts in this post.
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